Saturday, July 28, 2007

Stop The Madness: An open plea

All:

I haven't had much to say about the I-league portion of this blog since I moved up to D nearly a year ago. BAC has done a nice job keeping things going. I thank him for that. He's a good kid.

But I thought it was time to chime in with some thoughts, for what they are worth, about the direction I-league and to a lesser extent D-league have taken in Euless. Much of the change is good, but some of it is bad. This seems to me a natural effect of growth, and maybe it's time for a small course correction that we should all consider in order to keep our little community together.

First, the good:

When I started this blog in January 2006, there were seven or eight teams in the I-league. Last season, there were seventeen or eighteen. That is phenomenal growth in 1 1/2 years. Everyone who plays I-league is to credit for that. We have created our own community around the league and recruited our friends to take up the sport. We push each other to learn and improve. We're having FUN. We're having a few laughs, making new friends. And for those of us who choose it, we're drinking a little beer.

That's it.

Folks, we play for fun. You want to see guys who play for real, go watch an A-league game. Go watch the Stars. Go watch the Brahmas when they come back. We don't play for real. We have families and careers that have nothing to do with hockey. We play for fun.

It seems to me that's where we've gotten way off the track. I've run across too many people who might well be having fun, but they're taking this thing far too seriously. They care too much about winning the keg. They whine too much when the lucky bloke on the other team gets lucky and scores a couple goals. They complain too much about ringers even while recruiting ringers to play on their teams. I love these guys and gals, really I do, but they need to get a life. As the saying goes, we all have to go to work in the morning.

Yes, the lower leagues in Euless have a big problem with guys playing way down from their ability. Great, we all agree. Now, let's all shut up about it and let Yockey do what he can to fix what needs fixing.

I have a sense that the rampant ringer complaints in I and D are going to cause some changes no one really wants. Some of you are going to lose teammates just because an opponent fingered them, not because they're actually playing down. There will be unintended consequences.

If everyone would work to show a little more sportsmanship, the leagues would be much better off, and games would be more fun. That goes for ringers who doff their helmets and take a bow after scoring a hat trick (I saw this with my own eyes recently), and for those who incessantly whine about anyone who scores a goal, lucky or not.

It's a game. Here's some perspective: Every single one of us sucks at hockey. Every last one of us, in the I-league and the D-league. Even the ringers. Come out and play in a big-boy pickup game some time and see how great you are.

We all suck.

And, that's OK. We play for fun, remember? With some hard work and each other's encouragement, we might be better some day. Or maybe not. That's OK.

So, could we just get back to that simple notion? We play for fun and friends -- and beer. As we start another session, let's try and remember that.

About this blog: The stuff written here is intended only in the spirit of good fun. It shouldn't ever become personal or petty, and it should reflect good sportsmanship. That doesn't mean there's no room for good-natured ribbing, of course. But if anyone feels like we went out of bounds, please let me know. My e-mail is on the right side of the page.

Above all, the goal of the blog is to provide information about goings-on at the local rinks and provide a place for this community to exist online. Your thoughts are welcome.

See you on the ice,

BC

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well said BC!!! I agree 100%! Two years ago I had never played ice hockey in my life, and now it is a part of just about everyone of my weekends, and I would not trade it.

Playing gave me a whole new respect for the game, and for the people that gear up and play it...or in my case, attempt to play it!

The only thing that I would add is that if you cannot honestly line up across from your opponent in a face off and give them a smile and wish them the best...Stay home!!!

This league is a place where you can show up every week and see familiar faces and play a really great and fun game, and if you are not an A-hole people will be glad you were there.

There are more important things in this world than winning a trophy...a trophy that you dont even get to take home. This past year we have had to see some of our fellow hockey players head over seas to serve their country...our country. And it is my understanding that this fall a few more will be heading out.

So let's not be petty about stupid crap like Ringers. Let's enjoy the game and the time that we have with friends. Life is short and when you find something simple like Saturday night hockey, something that allows you to escape this crazy and often F'd up world...you should spend more time enjoying it than bitching about it.

Thanks BC for a great posting!

Blog Alternate Captain said...

Thanks for the post boss.

Did i get that raise i asked for?

Anonymous said...

BC, I'm another person who totally agrees with the comments posted.

BAC, thank you for deleting comments about ringers. I'm so fed up with the ringer talk, I just feel like I want to puke.

Guys, please stop whining about ringers and go out and have fun playing hockey and have confidence in Tom Yockey to his job and clean up want ever mess that has been left behind in the past.

Go have fun playing hockey and then go have fun upstairs bulls**t about your game as you are drinking beer.

Stone Cold

Anonymous said...

I cried

Anonymous said...

Yes, thanks for posting this.

I had to take a 6 month break from co-ed hockey after experiencing this extreme competitiveness and bitching. I was made to feel like I was a waste of space on the ice, rather than being appreciated for what I CAN contribute to a team. After joining a different team at a different rink, the fun of hockey has returned.

In recreational leagues, hockey is love. Hockey is NOT life.

Anonymous said...

Well said everyone. I used to sub in D league but dropped down to I due to age and ability. I noticed right away the difference in attitudes. 'D' was win, win, win. 'I' was nice try, and you almost had it. I prefer the 'I' league for those reasons. You still find the occasional 'win at all costs' types there but they are the exception. I haven't played since last September but plan to return season after this one. My former team, Redrum/Shockers has moved so if anyone is going to need a 2nd or 3rd line winger let me know.

Thanks again to the BC for his post and the reality check.

Billy
formerly of- Jolly Rogers, Redrum,
Shockers,

Anonymous said...

Owing to a recent injury, I have been sidelined for several weeks and will be for at least several more. At my age broken bones heal quite s-l-o-w-l-y.

Such forced idleness has given me some time for reflection.

BC hits paydirt with his post.

To keep the fun in the game, a hefty dose of humility helps. As BC puts it so eloquently, we all "draw hard vacuum" ...

I am, by nature, extremely competitive. But when I (mis)apply my competitiveness to other players, it makes me neither a better player nor a better teammate. Nor does it make the team better.

At the end of the day, it is really all about the love of the game and camaraderie and fellowship with my fellow amateur athletes.

-- Mondo

Griffin said...

Great post. The I-League is a blast for me compared to higher leagues at other rinks.

Sean
#22 Leftovers

Anonymous said...

Word...

Anonymous said...

This is all a load of crap by a bunch of beer leaguers that never improve. Looking forward to schooling all of you this year!

Anonymous said...

can you come school me?

Anonymous said...

Precisely... we know we'll never improve, hence the beer league... you're a little slow, but you ARE catching on... a little bit longer and you may actually understand.

Anonymous said...

The anonymous moron who thinks she can school "all of us" is a very sad case ... no wonder she remained anonymous.

It must be embarrassing to be so immature. Do you have a job where you are expected to interact with adult human beings?

I bet in your pathetic imagination you think you are Rocket Richard ... or Bobby Hull ... oooooo ... or the Great One!

Bah!

Anonymous said...

Awesome post BC! Now I am proud to say "I suck!" Seriously, if it is not fun, then why pay the $200 every 12 weeks? I quit playing golf when I stopped having fun.

Anonymous said...

BC/BAC - you're right on the money, couldn't agree more - "school us" - ? Perfect, brain sturgeon, you make a great case for BC/BAC's post - you and your cousins are why I'm taking off this session I'm capable of really hurting people - bad - but I love the place, all my friends, and sharing precious non-life-stress time - MY Saturday nights, for God's sake - with you guys and girls - for the FUN.

An as much for your (BC's)perspective on our friends going overseas, over taking stuff like rec league hockey seriously - tough guy? Go to the Saudi, they'll sort you out.

Later - looking forward to returning.

Anonymous said...

I totally agree with your comments. when player's on this site started making "ANONYMOUS" comments about other players and coaches from Euless I lost all interest in your blog site. As most of you know these coaches take time out of their personal lives to "TRY" and teach the game of hockey to a group of people who have in some cases never stepped foot on an ice rink! For a new player to come into the league and see how you all act on and off the ice it is a wonder there are any "NEW" players at all! for the select few adult players who have decided to voice rude, tasteless and sometimes offensive comments about these players and coaches you all need to take a step back and look at yourselves! Remember this "IS" just a game and yes most of you take it way too seriously! Maybe some day you all will grow up and stop acting like someone just took your toys and kicked you out of the sandbox!